Who’s Listening?
There are a lot of bands registering for Twitter these days, and while the subject of this post is not specific to Twitter, it certainly was inspired by what I’ve seen a lot of while spending time using the service. I know I’ve touched on this topic briefly in one of my previous posts, but I feel this particular behaviour needed a post of it’s own. The behaviour I’m talking about, is “broadcasting.” This is when a band (or a person) uses the internet as an outlet to send outward one-way communications. Something like “NEW SONG NOW POSTED ON OUR MYSPACE” is a broadcast. Sure, it’s informative, but it’s not engaging at all, and it doesn’t make the most of the opportunity that having friends/followers listening to what your saying presents. And when this is the ONLY type of communication being sent, and in the worst case scenarios, the same message is being broadcast repeatedly, with no other types of messages in between, the offending communicator ends up doing themselves more of a disservice than they would by deleting their account and keeping quiet.
The feeling that type of communication engenders in the listeners is one that tells them the band doesn’t care about them at all. At least, not beyond needing some attention paid to them, and they don’t care from who.
In this modern age, attention is fleeting, and it is PRECIOUS!!! Someone who follows you has gone out of their way to click on (or search out) your profile, and then click again to request to follow you (or subscribe to your email list, or friend you on Myspace, or what-have-you)… and while a few clicks don’t seem like a lot of effort, they really are. Because that person didn’t have to bother at all! That means you’re speaking to someone who wants to hear what you have to say. Unless of course, you followed/friended them first, and they’re reciprocating to be polite. Those people need to be treated with respect too, but while they have said it’s okay for you to send them your messages, they may not be your biggest fan (yet!), so keep that in mind when communicating and don’t presume anything.
The bottom line is, just because you’re online, it doesn’t mean the unspoken rules of conversational behaviour go out the window. Respond to people who say something to you, answer people when they ask you questions, don’t just broadcast your promotional messages all the time. Treat your listeners with respect, and take good care of the attention they are giving you, because it’s very easy for them to give their attention to someone else.
Listening to what your listeners are saying – responding, asking questions of them, and engaging them in conversation are things you can do to make the experience they get from listening to you, much more rewarding for your listeners.
And then they’ll listen to you even more.




